the sucker

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Registered: 08-20-2004
the sucker
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Sun, 07-31-2005 - 8:59am
hey ive been friends with this female for a while. she broke up with her bf which hurt her bad and before u knew it i started to like her. she seemed to be giving me the vibe that she liked me to.i called her thursday and she said she was about to go out so she'd call me when she got bak.here it is thursday she hasnt called or got online. i talked to her friend and she said that her ex was tryin to get bak with her and he was doing a good job of getting her bak.her friend thinks i should go 4 it and call her.but i dont wanna be the guy that tells her that hes no good for her.because those guys end up being the sucker of the situation cuz ive been there before.so should i be the sucker that tells her not to be with him be wit me or should i let her get hurt again?
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 12:02pm
Hon, you're not going to have any influence in her at the moment. She IS into her EX and that's why she did't return your call; yes, she said she'd call you but something better -in her mind- happened so she took it and forgot about you. Getting involved with this girl at this time is not a good thing. She's thinking in her EX...do you want to listen to her talk about him when you're out on date with her? It's possible that she still loves him and that's why she's acting this way. You can tell her what you want about her EX, BUT since she's still in love with him she'll not pay attention to you. She'll do what she thinks is best even though it's not.