Threesomes!

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Threesomes!
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Mon, 12-19-2005 - 3:22pm
Hi All:
Okay so 4 those of u who don't know. I'm dating my HS sweetheart. I'm now 26 & he's 28. We've been dating since b4 Thanksgiiving & things are moving really fast. We went away 4 the weekend this past weekend & we spend all our weekends together. I guess it doesnt seem so weird b/c we were inseperable then & so I guess part of us just feels right picking up where we left off. The thing is that we have mentioned having a threesome. I had one when I was like 21 or 22ish & not since. I was wondering if any of you have experienced or know of people who have had threesomes & whether it could potentially ruin a relationship or not affect it at all. I'm comfortable doing it but I dont want it to ruin what we now share, any comments?

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Registered: 06-30-2003
In reply to: exzhellraisr
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 11:15am
Thank you for your responses. To be honest he hasn't been pressuring me into it at all. He mentioned it once when we were playing this dumb game with his friends and mine and then I mentioned it from then on. I mean I am sure if it preseted itself he would do it but if I never mention it again I am sure that he won't either. Ultimately it's me who will choose and I thought this was something that I wanted to do. I dont know anymore.
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Registered: 06-22-2005
In reply to: exzhellraisr
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 11:19am
I for one would never be up for a threesome and even the thought of my boyfriend considering such a thing would make me feel as if he didn't love me if he was willing to share me with another person. If he continuously brings this up, I would start re-evaluating my relationship with him. He might not see you as a long term girlfriend which is why he wants to use you for his fantasies before he decides to move on. I guarantee that if he thought of you as wife material he wouldn't be asking you for such a thing.
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