Too difficult to answer right now?!
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| Fri, 09-09-2005 - 3:34pm |
About three months ago I asked my boyfriend of a year if he loved me. He had previously told me he loved me (more than once, mind you), but hadn't uttered those words in six months. After refusing to answer, he finally said, "that's too difficult of a question to answer right now." I broke up with him a few days later. Three days later, he started calling my cell phone non stop and left a message that he had missed me and wanted to get back together. We got back together. I'm afraid to tell him I love him now because I don't want to open up that can of worms again. Also, he still hasn't told me that he loves me. I guess I want to know if I'm wasting my time with him. I'm not getting any younger and I do want to have kids someday. We've been dating for a year and a half and I feel that if he doesn't love me, I need to leave.
Any thoughts?

If he doesn't know if he loves you after a year and a half of dating, I say dump him.
Life is too short and there are too many wonderful/available guys out there to settle for less.
Dump the guy for one who will feel as passionately about you as you'll feel for him.
Good luck!
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