understanding the TRUE him
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|Thu, 07-22-2010 - 10:43am|
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are in love. We never became "official" but it was understood and he treats me like his girlfriend. I really feel happy when I'm with him and he treats me like a princess.
The problem is I have never seen him really upset nor sad. We argue but when we do, he ignores the problems. I see that he's opening up to me more...but I don't think or know if I truly know the true him yet. I'm I thinking too much and should I just let him slowly open up to me or should I do something to show him that I want him to open up his feelings with me?
I know everyone important in his life already, his family and close friends. They tell me that's the way he is, but I'm determined to know the person I love in the bad ways too. I mean I don't want him mad or sad, but I'm sure there are days that he is and just doesn't tell me. I want him to know that I'm there for him emotionally and that he can tell me anything! I know his sweet loving side, goofy side, and sometimes even his "I don't care" side, but that's about it.
PLEASE ALL ADVICE IS APPRECIATED! :) TELL ME HOW YOU MADE YOUR GUY OPEN UP, or GUY TELL ME WHAT MAKES YOU OPEN UP TO YOUR GF!