Weird or am I just being jealous?

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Registered: 12-28-2010
Weird or am I just being jealous?
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Tue, 02-15-2011 - 9:34am

Ok, so my BF and I have been dating for a few months and it's going very well...we aren't talking moving in together or marriage serious but it's seirous in a good way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 1:50pm

How long has he been divorced?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2008
Fri, 02-18-2011 - 1:36pm

I think there are alot of red flags here... one he has only been separated for 9 months.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 02-18-2011 - 5:27pm

My husband's ex came to his mother's funeral and wake.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Sun, 02-20-2011 - 7:52pm

I think all it is

Missy
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 9:39am
"Married is married" Iyanla Vanzant says.

Heard on these boards and elsewhere, it takes 2 years AFTER the divorce for people to really get up and running again. Too much drama here, too much complication. You might want to look at your pattern on getting involved with unavailable men. There are actually men out there that are available, kind and have put full closure on their relationships. You don't have to take scraps. You can have it all.

Let him put closure on his relationship, legally and emotionally and tell him to contact you when its all wrapped up. If he really wants to be with you, it will be effortless for him.

btw..his ex could very well go after his pension. Once the lawyers get together..people grow horns when legal proceedings commence
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 9:53am
Well put. Great post. You are my hero...lol
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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sat, 03-05-2011 - 5:13pm

Yes the pension is on the table.

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 6:05am

Can't agree with you XXXS.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 2:10pm

I disagree strongly.

dragowoman