Whadaya want from me?

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Registered: 02-12-2010
Whadaya want from me?
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Sat, 02-13-2010 - 12:36am

About a year ago a longtime co-worker and I ended up out alone after a larger party.

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Registered: 09-23-2009
Mon, 02-15-2010 - 11:00am

You need look out for your own best interests, so I would point blank ask him the questions that you seek answers to. "'At the party, you said that you have always been interested in me. Are we just friends, or more? Do you want our relationship to progress? Are you into dating more than one person at a time, or do prefer being exclusive?" I know it takes courage to bring up this subject, and may be embarrassing, but you need to look out for number one, and know what the stakes are. You need to know what you're getting into, and to not be taken advantage of. Your needs are just as important as his. You're driving the train, and you'll tell him when to get on and when to get off.