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What can I do?
| Mon, 12-05-2005 - 2:42pm |
Please help! My fiancee just broke off our engagement last night. I don't know what to do. I have dated lots of men, and finally fell in love with this one. Everything about our relationship was so great--he treated me like a queen and I loved spending time with him. And the feeling was mutual--he repeatedly tells me he enjoys my company more than any other girl and that I am the only girl he could really talk too and feel comfortable with. He pursued me from the start and has said he has never been happier with anyone else. Yet, last night he said he couldn't go through with it add just kept saying I'm sorry--no reason--just "I'm so sorry, i'm so sorry". Is there anything I can do? I am heartbroken. How can he not even have a REASON? I asked him if he meant all the things he said before and he said "with all my heart." I asked him if he loved me, and he said "yes." So why the breakup? Obviously he's lying about something (ie if he really loved me he WOULD marry me), but without an explanation, I feel so lost. I truly believe this man and I are meant to be together. Everyone says if it doesn't work out that I'll find someone better, but I can't even imagine that--he was EVERYTHING i've ever wanted. And I thought I was everything he ever wanted....how can he just change his mind...and how do I deal with this???
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| Mon, 12-05-2005 - 4:16pm |
I really feel for you. Question.... was your wedding soon? Maybe he has cold feet. Do you two still speak? Maybe you should just give him some space for a little while. You could also suggest some couples counseling. I went through that once and I have to say it was probably one of the smartest things I've ever done for myself. Let me know what happens.
