What to do?????
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What to do?????
| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 12:14pm |
I noticed a guy about 3 years ago whenever
I go to a certain place.
This past year he has noticed me and we
ALWAYS stare at eachother without taking
our eyes off of eachother every single
chance we get.
We never take our eyes off of the other.
Well, I finally talked to him almost 3
weeks ago and gave him my number.
He hasnt called but I saw him 2 days
ago and this was the most we ever
watched, looked, stared at each other.
If we are sooooo interested and attracted,
why hasnt he called, and what should
I do????????
Because it is obvious we cant take our
eyes of each other when we are in the same room!!!

Instead of staring at him, ask him.
You gave him your number and he hasn't made a move?
I don't think it's much you can do. The ball is pretty much in his corner, now.
But I do know this. If someone I've been noticing a while decided to give me his number, I'd be so ecstatic that he'd definitely get a call from me. That is, if I'm interested and available.
Maybe he only finds you very attractive and isn't willing to go any further with you?
Some guys just appreciate beauty and they stare and really want nothing more.
But, the only way you're going to find out is to come right out and ask him directly why didn't he call you, I think.
Hon, people stare at freaks.
They stare at what fascinates.
They stare at what offends.
don't take his staring as anything but "interest" in something regarding you in some way.
he's got your number, he hasn't called - read into that and you've got the picture.
You apparently have some dreamy notion that across a crowded room your eyes will meet and lock, and you'll plunge forever into a romantically blissful relationship.
Won't happen.
History here says that neither of you know how to communicate, that you don't know yourselves well, you're not confident in yuour abilities and your identity, and so you tend to "stare" until something approaches you and then you interact with it - until it scares, upsets, or disappoints you and then you back off.
Erin
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