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| Wed, 10-12-2005 - 1:30pm |
I've been dealing with this great guy for over an year and a half now. And he's still not ready for a relationship. This guy by the way works with me and I know that this one lady likes him. He takes her home after work but insist that he is only helping her out.Me and this guy hardly ever goes out we basically just have sex and thats at my house he never really invites me over to his but maybe because he stays with his mother. I'm so tired of waiting I' don't want to rush him into a relationship . I tired of the excuses of waiting till he gets his own house or wait till he pays off some of his bills. I'm only 24 but am ready to settle down what should I do He has been the only guy that I have been dealing with an I'm so emotionally attached to him it's so hard to let go what should I do ?

Couldn't agree more.
This guy is using you for sex, pure and simple.
Wise up and the next time a guy wants to have sex with you and hasn't even asked you out on a real date, just say, "Oh, he11 no!!!"
I truly feel for you 'cause I know it hurts to hear, but use this as a learning experience and don't let it happen to you twice.