What does this kind of behaviour mean?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2008
What does this kind of behaviour mean?
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Tue, 03-02-2010 - 2:22pm

I met this guy. we started hanging out. Some things happened and we decided to slow things down and be friends and start over again.


He goes to New Orleans, and has a one night stand. 1 day after ending our

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
Tue, 03-02-2010 - 3:22pm

Hi toufu and welcome to the board. If you and he aren't together, then what difference does it make who you see now and what he has to say about it? Right? When I was in a similar situation, my ex behaved like that because

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Wed, 03-03-2010 - 6:25pm

"my ex behaved like that because he thought I'd be pining away for him rather than going on with my life and enjoying myself."

This has DEFINITELY been my own experience, too, with men who were extremely immature emotionally.

OP, this "relationship" is really not off to a great start, and that usually means things won't improve. Do you really see things going somewhere with this guy? Why? Based on how he's acting thus far I can't say he's worth your time at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
Thu, 03-04-2010 - 3:20pm

Yeah, I dodged the bullet, but he married and divorced 2x after that, so I don't think he has grown up yet, lol. I think he'll be like this someday,

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