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|Sun, 01-24-2010 - 12:06am|
My high school/college sweetheart and I recently went through divorces. During this time of about a year, we reconnected, supported each other as friends, became lovers, and things gradually deteriorated. We each have children. My divorce was my idea, while his divorce was a "surprise" sprung on him by an unstable ex-wife. I don't think he is over her. He is fairly self-centered now, didn't used to be. He has anger management issues and gets frustrated with me because we "fight all the time" when we are together. I never asked him for a relationship, but he did tell me that I am angry because he is not ready for one. Recently I discovered he has put a profile on an online dating website. It is obvious that I am not what he is looking for; he wants the woman who just left him. He wants a trophy wife that he can show off and mold in the way he wants her to be. I know I need to let him go because he is a lost soul and not the man I used to know. I caught him in a lie last week and have not heard from him since. I don't know what I did. He went from everything being fine to now he won't return my phone calls. I'm so confused and what makes it so bad is that I still care for him a great deal. I know that moving on is the right thing to do. How do I do that?