What is he thinking?

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Registered: 02-09-2004
What is he thinking?
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Thu, 10-13-2005 - 6:10pm
I have recently started talking to this guy that I really like. When I was introduced to him by a mutual friend, I was told that he had gotten a divorce maybe a year ago(they were married for 3 years and she cheated the entire time)and didn't want anything too serious. However, when we talk on the phone he talks like he really likes me and wants to maybe have a future with me. He keeps making future plans for us and asking me questions you wouldn't normally ask someone unless you had thought about a future together. The problem is that in the beginning he was calling me, but recently he hasn't called b/c he told our friend he didn't want to seem "pushy". I called him a couple of times but I don't understand why he doesn't make more of an effort to contact me. Is he scared and if he is, what do I do to make him trust me and want to have something with me? Thanks for all your help.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Fri, 10-14-2005 - 2:12am

I'm a little confused because your post is all written in the present tense. Apparently he is making future plans for the two of you.....however at the same time, he's not calling you and you've called him only 'a couple of times'. This doesn't make sense. How can he be making plans if you're not talking often?

Is all this happening concurrently? Or did he *used to* make plans for the future.

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