what is with him?
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what is with him?
| Wed, 10-26-2005 - 9:49am |
I started dating a guy a couple of weeks ago. We went out and hit it off right away. He made it clear that he had a busy schedule, two jobs, back to school but that he liked me and wanted to see me. He would text message me as well just to say hi. We've been out about 4 times in three weeks and when we are together it is great and he seems to like me very much. But within the past week, I have not heard from him at all. He is a bit flighty, I've heard and I don't think he realizes it. I called him this past Saturday and left a message to let him know I was available to hang out Weds. (today) or Fri. this week but I have not heard back from him! Is he just not that into me? Should I just forget it? If we do meet up again, should I say something and how do I say it without scaring him. Help!

Marie
<< He made it clear that he had a busy schedule, two jobs, back to school but that he liked me and wanted to see me.>> and <>
He made it clear that he's got a lot goin' on in his life. Not everyone can prioritize having two jobs, school ... and a girlfriend (meaning, having time for a relationship, too). Therefore, if you're looking for prioritization ... he's not your guy. He may very well like you, too ... BUT, sounds like he's a better candidate for "see you when I see you" than for counting on him for dates.
Next guy in line, please !!!
I don't do the waiting game. Time is flying, the clock is ticking.
Hi...
If I was you I wouldn't call him...let him call u....he told u he had a busy schd. and if he is telling the truth and likes u then he is not going to want a girl that is going to be up his ass if he is already busy(I am going through it now with my man but the sitution is reversed)
And if he likes u then he will realize that u havent called and when he does explain to him that u didnt want to intrupt his busy schd. and u were waiting to for him to call u.
If u don't hear from him in 2 weeks call him and ask him what hes been doing and why he hasnt called he might actually be busy, but if u get his voice mail leave a message and if u doesnt call u back then forget him. If u do talk to him just keep your eye open to make sure hes not a playa and dont get attached to him unless u know otherwise
I think I would leave him alone for a while. If he was telling the truth and he likes you, he will call. Also, this conveys the message that you are not dependent on him, meaning that you have your own life and you don't sit around waiting or him to call.
If he likes you he will keep calling, and if he never calls, then you can move on.