What now?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2005
What now?
Sun, 08-21-2011 - 7:51pm
Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
In reply to: jemjet2005
Sun, 08-21-2011 - 9:37pm
Well, you basically told him to "get it together" and then contact you. What did you expect? If you truly want to give him space, you can't expect him to contact you for awhile. Three days isn't long.

In my experience, when your gut says something is wrong, it's telling you the truth no matter what the guy says. I don't really see this guy magically turning into the man you need him to be.