What is really going on here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-25-2009
What is really going on here?
Sat, 10-03-2009 - 1:00pm

My hubby is 45, I am 44. Been married for less than 3 yrs.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2006
Mon, 10-05-2009 - 2:45pm


Welcome to the board! I'm sorry that you are going through this. Perhaps your husband is revealing his true self to you, and this is who he is? That was possibly like this in all his previous relationships/marriages and that is the reason for all of the infidelities? Its not an excuse but may be a contributing factor.

Is counseling an option?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2009
Mon, 10-19-2009 - 3:42pm
it seems to me he been hurt so much he scared to let U get really close he rather U leave him.not saying you should because he seem like a really nice guy but if you don't do something soon you going to end up resenting him.and then you going to began looking for love else were.