what should i do now?

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Registered: 04-02-2006
what should i do now?
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Sun, 04-02-2006 - 2:58pm
ok so i need some help from u girls about a decision i made a while back that im trying to keep the thing is this i was with this guy for about 1 yr and then he moved to florida i live in ny we keep seeing eachother even though he could only come up once every 2 months but he would always make time to see me then like back in dec he started making excuses as to why he couldn't see me that day changing plans on me and stuff all cause he wanted to see his freinds. we'll that got me pretty upset so i figured i wasn't that important to him anymore and that because of the distance our relationship would probably end anyways. so i told him we should stop seeing eachother. he was mad but got over it really quick didn't really try to get me back and i guess i thought he would. then in the past we would always talk like every other night for hrs after i broke things off he would hardly call me at all i know i probably hurt him but i still wanted to stay freinds and i told him this he agreed. but since dec things between us have gone really bad as far as keeping in touch i think he may be seeing someone else which i wouldn't like but im the one who broke things off so im willing to deal with it i just want him to be honest with me lately when we do talk on the phone he seems to be rushing me off and then he says he will call back but usually doesn't so i have decided to cut him off compleatly i don't want to but i feel i have to he is not trying to be my freind so last time he called i didn't return his phone call it's been about 2 weeks since then and he just called me today again do u think i should call him back?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 5:19pm

Sweetie the phrase "let's still be friends" is an expression that many people use when they break up - but not many people actually mean it. Most people just move on. And this appears to be what your boyfriend has done.

He's not seriously interested in keeing a friendship going, so take the hint and move on. (said in the nicest possible way)

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