What would you choose?

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Registered: 06-22-2005
What would you choose?
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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:02am

If you were in a relationship, and you had to choose between one of these two options, which one would you choose?

A) A man who satisfies you emotionally in every aspect possible. He treats you like a woman should be treated and you never doubt his love for you. But on the other hand, your are not satisfied with your sex life with him at all.

or

B) A man who satisfies you sexually in every aspect possible. It is the best sex you have ever had in your life. But on the other hand, he doesn't satisfy you emotionally and isn't as sweet or caring as you would like him to be. He isn't romantic and sometimes can be distant with you.

Would you choose to be satisfied emotionally even if you have to sacrifice your sex life for it? Or would you sacrifice your feelings for a great sex life?

Just curious...

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 1:15pm
Someone who is there for me emtionally. I show him how to care for me sexually it is all about communication. If he is there for you and only wants you to be happy then in the bed room he will not mind knowing I am not satisfied and learning what it takes to get me there.

Marie

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Registered: 09-15-2005
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 6:38pm
Assuming with option A, that the lack of good sex has more to do with technique versus not being physical at all, or physical issues with his manhood, I will take A anyday....because you can TEACH a man to be better in bed as long as he's willing, and I have met few men who are not willing to learn how to please a woman. But you can't teach someone to be more emotional. Or pry him open. Too hard. :)
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Registered: 10-06-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 8:58pm
Hi Marie! BINGO - you took the words right out of my mouth. Take care and God Bless you and yours.

 

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:05pm
And a hello to you too Inkeddogmom! I'm with you, I have no problems teaching as long as the emotional is in tact. Take care of you and yours.

 

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wed, 11-09-2005 - 1:17pm

I'd take A hands down. It's a WHOLE LOT easier to teach a man how to please you in bed then it is to teach him how to be a considerate, loving person who understands your needs.

Also, guy A wouol be the kind of man who is completely open to learning how to please you and would WANT to please you. It's a crap shoot on whether guy B would even remotely care enough to TRY to please you emotional or meet your needs.

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Registered: 11-10-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 2:36am
i rather get someone who was their for me emotionally then sexually . you can always show them what you like in bed.