Whats goin on?! need some advice please!
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|Mon, 03-22-2010 - 11:45am|
2 months ago we let each other know there are feelings between us she had said she was confused about what her feelings for me meant. Normally i woulda took that as she letting me down easily. Eventually about 2-3 weeks later after that we were textin talkin on the phone all the time (she goes to school 8 hours away so i never see her unless she comes visit her family on her breaks,) she seemed less confused.
So weve been just contactin through phone for past 2 months and last week we talk and she ask what i was doin which i was at a starbucks and she shows up out of nowhere to surprise me. Hadnt told me she was coming up here and noone knew besides her parents. So we kick it from there and we go to a bar and we chill in the parking lot after. She gets close huggin me and whatnot nd she wants me to kiss her so we get into it, gets kinda heavy nd long but nothing more happened
So the next day we kick it all day she comes by my house meets my parents real quick so it seems koo. Then the following day we meet up go out kick it wit some of the cousins drinkin. As we leave shes walkin in front and kinda waits for me to walk up and grab her from behind so i do and she grbas my hand. We finally make it to the car and we just talkin and i lean in for a kiss and she pulls back and i go in again and she gives in. Then she starts sayin that
"she liked what had happened the other night but it was to fast cause we went from friends to kissin like that"
so i told her if your not feelin all this right now just let me know. her response was if tht was the case i woulda let u know. She said shes goin through so much nd has jus ben one mind tracked right now with school. I would also take that as an easy letdown to me but the little signs say otherwise. i called last night just to say wassup and she called back, i figure if she dont want to lead me on she wouldnt answer or respond to my txt knowin that i have feelngs for her to make it clear that shes not interested like that right?
She comes all the way up here and im the first person she visits
her phone background pic is a pic of us 2
the way we things went down in the parkin lot
so what does this girl need or want. cause all she has to say is im not feeling it or we should just be friends which she is the type who would.