Whats wrong with him?

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Whats wrong with him?
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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 11:53am

Hi, (kinda feels weird doing this but i need some advice regarding my "boyfrined ") I have been dating him for about a year, everything was sweet, and " fine" till we had an argument,he dissapear and stop answeing his phone,,,, after few days he called and came out with the words im not feeling it (he was married for about 8 years she cheated on him with one of his friend so its been almost 2 yrs since they got divorced) well he wasnt feeling it and he wanted to get some things straight with his X cuz he was still having feelings for her, well after a month he called and we met and said he was feeling it that it was there all the time that he couldnt live with out me and so on (he talk to his X during that month but he "realize he was just wasting his time, and just wanted to be with me" ) well we got back together, once again it was sweet and "fine" till he started acting the same way he did last time, the weird thing its that there was no argument, we were just fine (sunday) and then monday he just dissapear he supposed to pick me up but he didnt make it, to my office, no message or call letting me know he wasnt coming called him all day so i decided to go to his house few days later and he was there, hes dad came out and he kick me out y? no idea, eveything is just so weird, its been a week, called him, left him messages and send him emails but no answer, what happen on monday morning no idea.... Just kind confused should i just forget about him and move on or try to get an answer,

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:29pm
My thoughts are to forget about him and move on. he is not mature enough to handle a relationship. Not man enough to let you know what is going on. He is not worth the time of day to ask for an explanation. he is being very selfish and does not care about you. Do not believe it be true.
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Registered: 04-28-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 11:08pm
The book, "He's Just Not That Into You" says, "HJNTIY if he...disappears". There might be the "answer" you're looking for. You got the shaft, no doubt. I wouldn't have that man if they stripped him, bathed him, cologned him and served him up on a platter for me. Not if he begged with his last breath.
Don't worry about "why". The fact is he did it...TWICE. Chalk it up to a lesson learned (meaning you won't allow this to ever happen again and if it does they don't get a second chance) and go on and find someone who won't do a Houdini on you. There are plenty of them out there. Let this idiot find someone else to mistreat. Don't let it ever again be you. I wish you the best of luck. Becky
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Registered: 04-16-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 1:24am

Don't waste anymore of your time on this guy. Move on. You deserve better.

Toodles,
Jazzy