When is His porn a problem?

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Registered: 03-31-2003
When is His porn a problem?
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Tue, 06-14-2005 - 7:31pm

Sheri

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Registered: 06-16-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 4:25am
Hello, this is my first post. I am living with my bf in a house in which he is buying. I am a single mom and up until Nov.'04 I was the soul provider for mine. Since moving in with my bf, I have asked several times that the porn be moved out of sight. He claims he only collects and doesn't watch it. We have been together for 4 yrs. now and he spends more on his " COLLECTION OF PORN" than he has me. He and a few of his buds take a trip every year to the Kentucky Derby, and this is when i notice how much I really mean. He buys me a toy of some sort for $12,tops, and winds up paying $100,or more, for his porn. What would you think? I am not really sure I will ever understand this.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 8:53am
I do not know how I would react to this, check out the board she has posted.
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Registered: 06-16-2005
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 12:20am

Hi, Lita.


I'm Carla, and I used to be a

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psfamporn

Reaching out with support, friendship, and encouragement to all those who have been negatively affected by pornography

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Registered: 06-16-2005
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 4:41am
THANKS CARLA. MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. HE HAS A PROB AND DOESN'T WANT TO CHANGE. WHEN MY 3 YR. OLD NEPHEW COMES TO ME AND SAYS "AUNT SHEA, I WANT TO WATCH THIS" I LOOK DOWN AND IT IS A PORN DVD, THAT REALLY HITS MY HEART. MY BF JUST TOOK IT AND PUT IT AWAY WITH NO COMMENT OR ANYTHING. MY 13 YR. OLD IS THE ONE THAT I WORRY ABOUT BECAUSE EVEN FOR A BOY THAT IS NOT SOMETHING I WANT TO BE WITHIN HIS REACH. I JUST HOPE THIS WILL PASS IN TIME, BUT TIL THEN I THINK I WILL GO HOME IN THE MORNING AND RELOCATE THEM MYSELF. LET'S SEE HOW HE LIKE THAT. WELL GOING BACK TO WORK NOW. CATCHA LATER