when should you say I love you?
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when should you say I love you?
| Mon, 05-16-2005 - 2:05pm |
Ok, so here's the deal. I am mid-20s in a relationship with a great guy for the last 5 months. Everything is going great. The only thing that concerns me is that he hasn't said those three little words yet. Yes, I know I could say them first, but I have in the past and it has back-fired, and I don't want to "pressure" him into saying them, so I'd rather wait for him. My question is, how long is too long to wait? Shouldn't he have said it by now? Does this mean he doesn't? FYI....every guy I have ever dated has said it to me within the first 3 months...maybe I am spoiled. What do you think?

I mean, basically, being in love is saying ur ready to spend the rest of your life w/ someone. are you certain about that after 5 months? i'd wait to say those deep, significant words if i were u.