who leads?

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Registered: 01-13-2004
who leads?
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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 4:22pm
It seems like I am in a relationship where I feel like I am doing most of the work? Is this normal? I feel like I am taking the lead in the activities that we do together and the time we spend together. Of course, he'll ask me to do things that he likes to do but his interests are limited---baseball and movies. I am not used to being the lead in a relationship and have only dated guys that were the leaders. This is so new to me and it's exhausting. Is he losing interest? He's the shy type that doesn't like confrontation and usually follows what I like to do it time permits. Any insights would be much appreciated
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: sweetpea2800
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 5:36pm

I posted my reply to you on "Problem Solving for Couples"

good luck.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: sweetpea2800
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 5:42pm
If he is shy then it could possibly be that he is not use to taking the lead. Or, you have been doing it so why should he even step up. Address this either you talk to him about it or stop taking the lead and see if he steps up to the plate.



































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