Why am I holding back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2009
Why am I holding back?
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 7:55pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 9:21pm

I'm wondering who started these get togethers.....who's idea?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2008
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 1:13pm

It does happen sometimes that one friend begins to feel 'more than friends' and the other one is taken aback.after he expressed his desire,you began to see him as a man instead of a friend.then begins the cycle of needs/wants/desires etc.If you really believe "If I wanted I could just go for it and he would gladly reciprocate." then why hold back? You wont know till you take a step forward.
I would advice to let him take it further.