Why does he want to stay in Contact ???
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| Thu, 09-29-2005 - 4:42pm |
Hi All
Ok, long story short I met a man 6 months ago, we dated for about 2 weeks. I felt completely comfortable with him from the start and we get along very well. His ex-girlfriend got jealous and then decided she might want him back. They have kids together. So she basically confused him and so our relationship was on and off and basically ended up being a FWB type of thing. Of course I have a lot of feeling for him. The girlfriend has now decided to go to counselling so our relationship has I think ended.
Anyway, when he told me this, I told him that there was no reason for us to stay in contact, he wasn't happy with that and said that he wants to remain friends.
He calls me from time to time to see how I am.
What really confuses me is why would a man who is trying to get his family back together want to stay friends with a girl he had dated and then rejected ? Maybe any guys out there can answer it for me. Does he feel obliged or guilty to stay friends, or is he keeping me on the back burner in case the relationship doesn't work again ?
And me having intense feelings for him doesn't make it any easier ?
Thanks for your insight.
| Fri, 09-30-2005 - 12:34pm |
