will he be back?
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will he be back?
| Tue, 09-27-2005 - 1:21am |
recently my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot lately. this past weekend he stood in a wedding, and ended up getting a little too close with the girl he walked down the aisle with. i am HOPING he didn't cheat, as he came home that night after the reception was over, but i found a number on his phone that was under his sister's name... that was definitely not his sisters number. obviously i confront him about it, and he said he was leaving. i then said "well if you leave, i leave".. sure enough he left, and i drove back to where I live (70 miles away). I'm not sure if we are broken up but I haven't talked to him in a couple days and it's really getting under my skin. he doesn't answer his phone nor does he email me back. he told our mutual friend that we weren't talking anymore. do you think he'll be back? we've been together for 4 years, why would a stupid fight like this break us up... ahhhhh help!

I have to agree with btslovergirl. I think he just saw an easy out and took it.
As a side note, you shouldn't have been snooping in your bf's phone in the first place. Snooping destroys trust in a relationship. Even if he did have the maturity to stick it out with you, which it seems he doesn't, he may very well have ended it because you violated his privacy.
I'm very close with my fiance and he wouldn't care if I went snooping in his phone but I don't becasue it shows I trust him, which I didn't always. I learned my lesson the hard way and I don't recommend it.
Nick - a reformed snoop
exzhellraiser:
well I mean, we don't break up all the time. the last time we broke up was in May, because he was drunk, and I wasn't... and god only knows you can't win a fight with a drunk! So he ended up breaking up with me and 6 days later he called me and said he was dumb for doing it and he didn't realize what he had. I am hoping this is the same thing. I mean, granted, I am mad about the whole situation, but he did not cheat (that I am full aware of anyway) and I am not going to throw away our 4 year relationship over one drunken night. If he does come back, yes we will talk... ALOT.. and see if things can be changed.. I think I only wrote in here to be told "yes he will come back".. because I don't think he will.......... I miss him, and I know this isn't healthy what we are doing, but things can be changed... and if it can't change, I will be strong enough to walk away... when I have the closure I need...........