Wondering

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Wondering
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Mon, 04-24-2006 - 10:23am

There is this guy who I've seen on the bus quite often, he always smiles at me,
tells me that I'm pretty....I started to have a little bit of a crush on him even though I don't find him that attractive. He's older than me, anyways, one day I asked him if he wanted my email, he seemed nervous, and he gave me his phone number, told me his name and asked what my name was. So, I called him about 4-5 times but there's no answer. I feel like he may not want to answer the phone when I call. What's going on? Do you think that maybe he's intimidated that I'm a younger women? (I'm 24, he looks about 40)

Thanks

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Registered: 03-09-2006
In reply to: sandra645
Mon, 04-24-2006 - 4:34pm

HA! Intimidated that you're a younger woman? No. Getting an enormous ego boost and stud reaffirmation that you're a younger woman? Most definitely!

What's going on you ask. My bet is he's, oh how do I put this...he's a MAN. The fact that a beautiful girl half his age is showing him any attention and interest is flattering and exciting. You, my dear sweet child, just made some old guys day. He probably went home to his wife and kids thinking "dang I'm hot!".

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Registered: 04-23-2006
In reply to: sandra645
Mon, 04-24-2006 - 7:30pm

dansfoxywife,

yeah, your right, his ego probably did inflate after the attention I gave him!
You definately have a point! Men are funny sometimes.....You know, when I offered him my email and instead he gave me his number, I thought for sure he would pick up the phone, but...well, he is a man! And if I made his day that is fine with me!