You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 8:51pm

How would you finish this sentence?


You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 10:14pm

Lordy! I read all the entries, and most of those guys were not just Mr. Wrongs... they were Mr. Nutcases!

Anyway, I used to rely on my "gut" for detecting Mr. Wrong when wasn't immediately evident that he was unsuitable... in other words, when he looked good "on paper." It usually only takes one date to get a very reliable sense of when a man isn't going to work out.

It's that feeling of irritation you get when he's talking, or NOT talking. Or when you realize you don't want him to touch you...not even to hold your hand. And of course, if he's starts being unreliable and nonchalant about your dates, he's JNTIY. More importantly, ladies, you DON'T have to keep trying to make it work when you're JNTIH!!

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Registered: 07-05-2006
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 11:44pm
he cares more about himself than the relationship
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Registered: 07-06-2006
Thu, 07-06-2006 - 1:12pm

OMG, this is a never ending question but the truth of the matter is that you know he's Mr. Wrong when you don't have the 3 primary factors of a relationship. Remember C.I.P.

Commitment
Intimacy
Passion

Believe me. You MUST have all 3.
JB

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Thu, 07-06-2006 - 8:16pm
LMAO...#3 ..you are kidding aren't you?? What did you say when he told you he was Jesus?? OMG..that is TOO funny...can't stop laughing....
Cyclegirl
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Tue, 07-11-2006 - 3:41pm
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Marie


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Marie

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 11:55am

How about "You Know He's Mr. Wrong"...


When he's proud to wear a mood ring.


When his hair is significantly longer (and prettier!) than your own.


When he plays you love songs on your parents' answering machine.


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Registered: 04-24-2006
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 4:08pm

I have a few more...

When: He takes you to a fancy restaurant and leaves a huge tip to impress you but the next week you find out he was arrested for not paying his child support for the past 6 months. (Happened to my girl friend!!!)

When: You give him your number because he seems nice but he calls 1,749,637 times a day "just to say hi" or to "check up on you" and you wish you never gave him the number at all!!!

When: He has 6 kids by 4 different women, doesn't have custody of any of them and it suits him just fine!

When: After dating you for a few months he feels he as the right to search you cell phone and monitor your phone calls. And when your male-cousin calls you, he overreacts cause he thinks your cheating!

This is too much fun! However, We should start on the topic of "YOU KNOW HE IS MR. RIGHT WHEN..." because there are alot of men that are far from Mr. Wrong. (or at least a few!) :)

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Registered: 10-31-2003
Mon, 07-24-2006 - 10:58am
Wow, such great responses!

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Mon, 07-24-2006 - 12:46pm
-He can't commit after 4 years
-You know that with all the baggage he's got, you don't want that comming with you even if you got married
-He likes to plan vacations without you
-He likes to hang out and talk to other "female" friends and thinks it's ok
-He likes to invite people to your vacation
-He forgets birthdays and anniversaries
-He's constantly wanting to buy stuff he can't afford
-When you know that you will never be married to him even if he asked
-That he'll still be living at home in five years, still bragging about getting a house.
-When I've moved on and feel free and know that the next guy I meet is the right one!
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Registered: 03-04-2006
Mon, 07-24-2006 - 6:23pm
I'm sorry that happened to you! I hope the next guy is a good one and you and he are meant to be.