You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 8:51pm

How would you finish this sentence?


You know he’s Mr. Wrong when…

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Registered: 12-06-2004
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 1:57am

Great post - I had to contribute

These all actually happened to me.

1) He tells you on the first date that he's really tired and when you ask why he says he "was up all night f**kin' some chick"

2) He swears undying love to you while he plans to move to Australia. And then moves there. Forever.

3) He's a no-show on meeting your family and when confronted says he had to write songs for his new band.

4) At a house party, you catch him making out with your best friend - in your bedroom - and neither one was even drunk.

5) Your sister goes to great lengths to get him a job at her company and he doesn't show up for his first day of work. He gets defensive and says he was sick and isn't he allowed 'sick days'? You dump him the next day.

6) On the first date, he asks you to call him 'Cobra'.

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 6:10am
Girlies, this cheered me up no end - and trust me, i needed it. Some guys are unbelievable lol.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 8:19pm
When you marry him, only to find out 4 weeks later that he is gay.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Mon, 01-01-2007 - 9:26am

You know he's Mr Wrong when ...

You catch him wearing your lingere and he looks better in it than you do ... :-p

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 3:46am

When after 28 years of marriage he tells he has always loved a different woman ...is now having a very busy phone n email affair.....and he tells you NOT to worry.......cause she WONT leave her husband??

papers will be filed on Jan 9th. thank you sir.

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Registered: 01-02-2007
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:09pm

Well if he married you, i dont think he's fully gay.
Real And True Gay Men Will never marry a woman.
And gay men are very sentimental (just like girls).
If they saw that you were really serious about the marriage, they wouldnt want to hurt your feelings like that.

This world is full of men, everywhere you go.
Next time, you should get to know the person
you wish to marry
more deeply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:38pm
Do straight men have a profile on gay.com and discuss how they suckered the girl into marriage and she has no clue that he is gay? When a person has been living a lie his entire life, he becomes a good liar. He knew what to say and when to say it. He didn't act gay and he didn't want anyone to know. But when you can't consummate your marriage with your wife, that is when your lie gets found out. I wouldn't wish that experience on anyone.
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Registered: 01-02-2007
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:48pm

I think that this man is a very very very confused man.
And i think that, he did love you..
and he wanted to give marriage a try,
to see if it would work.

But i guess he realized, that being with a woman didnt make him feel right.
And i really dont defend him..
because he leaped without even thinking.

I believe in Karma..
"what goes around comes arond"....
and i believe in god.
People like this usually dont live happy lives.

He doesnt know what he wants.
And the least thing you could do is be sad.
Matter fact, you should be the happiest girl in this world..
Knowing that your not with that man anymore.

He really DOES NOT deserve YOU.
You deserve the best.
And Your lucky you found this out soon,
cuz this couldve been a worser situation.

I know that with time,
and with mental and spiritual healing....
faith in yourself, and more importantly FAITH IN GOD..
Everything will start taking it's place.

"EVERYTHING WORK'S TOGETHER".
That's a phrase, i used to help me through life's really bad problems.
At the end, everything has a reason Why It happened.

I wish you the best.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 2:46pm
Not all gay men are sentimental and mushy. Many have normal male mannerisms, the sterotype gay man is not what you will see on a daily basis and have known many who are in the closet gay and will marry and even sleep with women to hide the fact they are gay. How did a majority of the gay men these days get their children, because most were with women and weren't ready to come out yet.
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