1st guy I met OLD back on the sites..lol

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Registered: 03-27-2003
1st guy I met OLD back on the sites..lol
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Sat, 04-01-2006 - 5:52pm

When I first started doing OLD a year ago, I had just left my husband and was "seeking better fish in the sea" lol.

I was contacted by this guy, and thought he sounded great, so we chatted for about a week online, then onto the phone once, and then met up.

Well, little old naive me, we clicked and got hot n' heavy...before I knew it, we were doing the DEED...then, naturally, when I e-mailed him the next day, he said that I was "going too fast", that I needed to "get out and experience more before wanting to settle down again", that he "knew what it was like when someone starts dating that soon after leaving a marriage because (he) did it, too"...yada yada yada...

Well, a few months later, I get an e-mail on the OLD site that seemed like he didn't recognize me, and was just e-mailing someone new...so I responded and said to look closer at the picture, and also look closer at the people he sleeps with...he e-mailed me back and said "LOL...I knew who you were, I was just checking in with you..."

Riiiggghhhhttt....

Well, I haven't seen him on any of the sites since then, but lo and behold, I just checked "New to Yahoo Personals"...and there he was! Looking cute as ever...

I'm such a bad girl...but I'm tempted to e-mail him again...or at least un-hide my profile and see if he contacts me again (my profiles are usually hidden, so that I don't get tons of crap, and only talk to who I want to talk to).

So, not being the naive little girl I was back then, but DEFINATELY being...ummm...ready for some action...I'm remembering how FUN he was...lol...

Is it bad to want to be so bad?

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Registered: 03-16-2006
Mon, 04-03-2006 - 3:11pm
Nothing wrong with wanting to be bad once in a while.
heather 5-18-10
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 2:26am

Well...update...

I didn't have to worry about unhiding my profile so I could "lure" him into contacting me on Yahoo Personals...he found me just fine tonight on MySpace, unbelievably enough! LOL What a coincidence! He sent me an e-mail that said simply, "H! Remember me?"

We IM'd for a bit, and he came right out and asked me to come over and crawl into bed with him. Isn't it amazing that after a whole year, you can start back up again like no time at all has passed! LOL

I declined the invitation for tonight, simply because it was 1am...but now that I know I *can* get to him when I choose...it feels kind of good!

LOL

Well, girls...maybe my 8 month dry spell will be over soon...it's about damn time...and I don't even have to add another person to the list! That almost makes it twice as good! LOL

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 3:04am

Oh, how exciting!!!!


Please keep us posted, I want to know what happens!!!!


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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:06am

You're asking ME? if its bad to be want to be so bad? lol

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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:08am
LOL< youre funny! "The list ..." hehehe
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