3 years in the making! ha, who knew!

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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 12:18pm

This may seem totally nuts, but it's true.

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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 9:31pm

Devorah, congrats on finding something real and passionate! As for your question about dating others, though I know many would disagree with me, I don't see any reason why you should force yourself to date others. I find that when we do, men tend to think that we're not that into them. I'm not saying to commit overnight but at least give it a few weeks and let him know how you're feeling. If you don't feel like dating others, don't. I honestly believe that if you force it, you may wind up with him becoming ambivalent. I hope that makes sense.


Keep your eyes open, let your heart do the talking and thank whoever you believe in for bringing someone your way. Keep us updated of course!

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Wed, 01-03-2007 - 10:53am

Sheri,


I've been mulling over all this for about 48 hours. I feel kind of confused about the whole thing, not confused in a bad way necessarily, just kind of lost feeling...lol...yeah, i guess that's bad.

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Wed, 01-03-2007 - 11:03am

Thanks Kerry, what you said makes sense. I'm going to try (not force!) myself to get back on the ball about replying to the guys on my dating site. I replied

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Wed, 01-03-2007 - 5:50pm

Hi Devorah,

Sounds like you have entered the fun-but-anxious stage of the relationship. It's good that you will keep on answering guys on your dating site until you are more sure of things. Always keep possibilities open.

I hope things work out well with K, and I fully understand that you won't want to be meeting anyone else while this relationship looks serious.

Best of luck!

Elsa




Edited 1/3/2007 5:53 pm ET by elarisa
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Thu, 01-04-2007 - 9:07am

I'm kind of facing a similar dilemma.

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Fri, 01-05-2007 - 11:18am

Wow! It sounds like you completely understand!


"I think you just need to follow your heart.

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Sat, 01-06-2007 - 10:28am

Well, I spent more time with him last night.

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Sat, 01-06-2007 - 10:39am

The rules tend to go out the

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Sat, 01-06-2007 - 11:07am

Thank you, Kerry.

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Sat, 01-06-2007 - 11:11am
How about letters? =o)