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3 years in the making! ha, who knew!
| Sun, 12-31-2006 - 12:18pm |
This may seem totally nuts, but it's true.
| Sun, 12-31-2006 - 12:18pm |
This may seem totally nuts, but it's true.
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Devorah, congrats on finding something real and passionate! As for your question about dating others, though I know many would disagree with me, I don't see any reason why you should force yourself to date others. I find that when we do, men tend to think that we're not that into them. I'm not saying to commit overnight but at least give it a few weeks and let him know how you're feeling. If you don't feel like dating others, don't. I honestly believe that if you force it, you may wind up with him becoming ambivalent. I hope that makes sense.
Keep your eyes open, let your heart do the talking and thank whoever you believe in for bringing someone your way. Keep us updated of course!
Sheri,
I've been mulling over all this for about 48 hours. I feel kind of confused about the whole thing, not confused in a bad way necessarily, just kind of lost feeling...lol...yeah, i guess that's bad.
Thanks Kerry, what you said makes sense. I'm going to try (not force!) myself to get back on the ball about replying to the guys on my dating site. I replied
Hi Devorah,
Sounds like you have entered the fun-but-anxious stage of the relationship. It's good that you will keep on answering guys on your dating site until you are more sure of things. Always keep possibilities open.
I hope things work out well with K, and I fully understand that you won't want to be meeting anyone else while this relationship looks serious.
Best of luck!
Elsa
Edited 1/3/2007 5:53 pm ET by elarisa
I'm kind of facing a similar dilemma.
Wow! It sounds like you completely understand!
"I think you just need to follow your heart.
Well, I spent more time with him last night.
The rules tend to go out the
Thank you, Kerry.
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