3rd date update and a Q

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Registered: 09-19-2004
3rd date update and a Q
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Wed, 08-10-2005 - 9:03am

So I had my 3rd date with D last night. He's been such a gentleman and is so sweet to me. He brought me flowers, opens the car door for me, pays for things, compliments me, etc. I'm almost skeptical that he's just following a script or something? Just seems too good to be true.

As far as the attraction issue that I brought up before, it seems I feel more attraction with each meet. It was nice to feel that excitment and tension before we kissed last night. So things seem to be going well there.

Regarding any new guys, I still haven't had any luck online (or offline for that matter haha). I guess it is hard to find suitable matches when you live in a area with a small population. I know a lot of you girls date more than one guy at a time, something I've never done (but am open to try). Do you discuss this with the guys you're dating? I would be worried when talking about my day/week that doing stuff with another guy might come up. And I am one to be totally honest, so I guess I'm wondering how awkward that can be.

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Registered: 06-01-2005
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:09am

Cowgirl-


This guys sounds great.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:47am

No, I don't discuss it--I think it's kind of tacky to do so. The default assumption is that both of us are dating other people unless and until we expressly agree on exclusivity...but I don't want to hear about his dates! So I'm certainly not going to tell him about mine.

Of course, if he asks if I'm dating other people, I will tell him yes, but I won't get into any details.

Sheri

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Registered: 07-12-2005
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 11:54am
Hehehe! Don't you love it when your feelings grow for someone? It is kind of fun! I have posted something similar about dating others while I am dating this one guy I have really started to like. It can be a bit hard, mainly because I think of the guy I like so much while on the date. But I have taken words of wisdom to continue dating others. Why? Because in the end they are right, it can keep you more grounded when you are on cloud 9 about some guy. Which is good, but at the same time I need to remain rational. I guess is how I would put it. But as far as the talking about your week thing. I had to do this with the guy I like. We were iming about what we were doing that night, and I simply said "going out with a friend". That way I can say exactly what I did, with no explaination of who with. Which, I don't owe him anyways. So he doesn't ask, and usually they don't. Not until the DTR at least. But this guy sounds great. Congratulations!