4th Date

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Registered: 10-17-2002
4th Date
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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 11:59am

Well, we didn't watch much basketball last night.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2006
In reply to: vexer_hw
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 1:37pm

"So things didn't go so slow that night or this morning (insert blushing face here)."

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: vexer_hw
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 2:48pm

LOL - don't choke!

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Registered: 11-08-2003
In reply to: vexer_hw
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 6:12pm

Try not to worry too much. Sometimes its just better to go with the feeling and enjoy the moment. If it works out to be the relationship of a lifetime, perfect. If you spend a few months enjoying each others company, very good. If it doesn't work out and you had an exciting passionate interlude in your life, that is good too.

Life can't always be planned. Sometimes it just has to be lived.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2003
In reply to: vexer_hw
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 7:16pm

I second that advice!!

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:23am

Wow you go girl! hehehe. If I knew ya better, I would be messing with you! LOL


Curious though... why is he thinking you're playing games?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 8:26am

Vexer,

I just wanted to say that's awesome. I wouldn't worry too much about the pace. My brother met his girlfriend on Match and they will be moving in together soon. They have been dating since January, and she is a "good girl" too, but there was so much chemistry that they ended up only being able to resist it for a few dates. They also live an hour away from eachother, so it made sleepovers inevitable, ha ha.

Sounds like the real thing : )

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:59pm

I think it's probably because of my hesitancy and that he thinks I hold back.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 1:03pm
Thanks for the reassurance and the story on your brother!

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Registered: 09-27-2004
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 1:21pm
This is so great to hear. I'm loving hearing all the happy dating stories lately that some of you have to share. Here's to cheesy love songs and enjoying your 5, 6th, 7th and hopefully many dates thereafter :-)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: vexer_hw
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 1:32pm

Well, the answer to that of course is that until you really get to know someone, there's a huge, huge risk that by sleeping with someone you will give your heart to someone who turns out to be untrustworthy, dishonest, just plain incompatible, or any number of other things. And that's fine if a person wants to take the risk but that "why not" argument bugs the heck out of me, frankly. There are LOTS of reasons why not!!! And guys don't as a rule run the same risks women do, so I don't think a guy can ever fully understand how emotionally vulnerable having sex makes a woman.

And I'd also be *slightly* concerned that he is saying he's not a player--just from my recent experience where I was reminded yet again that if a guy has to TELL you what he's not, then that's not a good sign. But of course there are exceptions so I hope he turns out to be one of them.

In any event, I'm glad for you--you sound happy and that's a good thing ;-). You weighed the risk and you decided to go for it--that's all any of us can do. I hope he proves worthy ;-)!

Sheri

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