I just came across this website & need some online advice. I have been chatting with a man that seems wonderful for about 3 months. He's called me on the phone & exchanged picutres. We were supposed to meet in about 5 weeks because his job has him overseas. Another girl online told me he was lying & to do some checking, which I did. What I found out was that he's been here in the US for the entire time & maybe 10% of what I've been told has been the truth.
My problem is that I'm not sure that I want to stop the fantasy with him. I do enjoy our conversations & he always makes me smile & laugh. I do get out and date other men, so it's not like I'm waiting on him. Is it bad to want to "pretend" when you know there is no hope for anything more?