after how many dates...?
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after how many dates...?
| Wed, 10-26-2005 - 10:42pm |
Hi,
I am just curious - if everything goes well between you and your date, you have good connections/chemistry, and you're into each other (at least from the way he acts), how long would you wait for him to ask for exclusivity before giving up? Would you ever start that discussion with him?
J.

Hey,
Thanks for your reply. I'm still in the initial stage so it's way too early to be thinking about exclusivity. Nevertheless, it's good to have some idea of how things work for OLD. :) I am worried sometimes that my expectation for OLD might be too high due to lack of experience, and that I will end up getting hurt. Having that realization myself, I am still a hopeless optimist and just hope that things will work out fine.
J.
About two months of dating steadily, about 2-3 times a week, is my comfort zone. And I'm not comfortable having sex until we agree to exclusivity.
Sheri