after the meeting

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Registered: 07-22-2008
after the meeting
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Mon, 07-27-2009 - 12:55pm

The short version is I met a guy online and we talked for about 5 or 6 months online, then

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2008
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 8:08pm
Whoa................in a word...forgetaboutit. Seriously he invited you to see him but rents a single room and had his bed wetting kid IN the bed with you?!?! Was negative and withdrawn and basically a jerk? Ugh.....move on.

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 8:52pm

Are you kidding??? You are worried about how HE feels about you?


Gal Blondie

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Registered: 07-17-2009
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 11:27pm

I’ll add an “Ick” to the other 2 members' “Ughs”.


He’s blowing you off.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 11:07am

Seriously? Shares an apartment with his family, shares a bed with his kid AND his date (can we say inappropriate?), smokes weed, no car - why are you wondering why he hasn't gotten back with you? Count your blessings and move on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2008
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 12:01pm
I was having second thoughts- that was understandable for ME....but WHY is HE blowing ME off? Thta's what I don't get...what kind of game is he playing?
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Registered: 03-09-2008
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 3:22pm
No offense, but with a guy like that, why do you even care???
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2009
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 4:40pm

but WHY is HE blowing ME off? Thta's what I don't get...what kind of game is he playing?


What possible difference does it make?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2008
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 4:44pm

<<<....but WHY is HE blowing ME off? Thta's what I don't get...what kind of game is he playing? >>>


Okay I may come off as rude here but I have to say this...


ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?!?!?! Why the heck do you care why he's blowing you off?? Consider it his gift to you!!!!!! And seriously..."what game is he playing"??? Come on girl...I know your not 13....if you really need a name for it, he is playing "I'm a BIG FAT loser but Im Still Geting Laid" game.


Do yourself a favor and move on right now.



iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2008
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 5:30pm

I thought that was the point of this board...for strangers on the internet to give insight to your situation?


And he was not big and fat, nor would he talk to someone for 6 months just to get laid...nor would he ask for a relationship AFTER he already got sex.


This only happened yesterday- I don't think I am obsessed by being upset over the abrupt ending of a relationship where I was talking with the person for 6 months. Have a LITTLE compassion.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
Tue, 07-28-2009 - 5:37pm
That's exactly why you don't talk to someone for months on end before meeting them. You've built up this relationship in your mind that just doesn't exist and you're way too upset about a person you've only met twice and isn't exactly a great guy anyway.

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