An Age Old Question

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Registered: 11-16-2003
An Age Old Question
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 11:25pm

When I meet someone IRL from online, we typically go out to dinner. When the bill arrives, I usually offer to help pay(go Dutch, etc). Some of the guys take me up on this offer and others do not to which I tell them thank you and graciously accept.

Are guys put off by a woman offering to pay? Are they more apt to think that I am not interested in dating them and it is more of a friendship thing if I offer to pay?

I have thought about just allowing them to pay, not offer when the bill arrives and just graciously accept, but I am not comfortable in doing so.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2005
Wed, 07-27-2005 - 12:14pm

I have said this before...and I stand by this.


"The girl NEVER...EVER...EVER...pays!"

CL-Truewild1969

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-29-2005 - 10:51am
Bumping up for Lollybell.

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