Alarms & Warning Music.....

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Registered: 11-04-2006
Alarms & Warning Music.....
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Mon, 01-22-2007 - 9:56am

This can be an on-going discussion...but when the OLD don't come with Audible Alarms, Warning Music or a Disclaimer of some kind....Here are some hints I have found helpful...

a)Always try to listen to that GUT feeling - the little voice inside of you is seldom wrong
b) If he talks about his EX in seething terms, and is incredibly angry...DANGER
c) If he tells you something about himself - like I can be a JERK...don't discount him - LISTEN
d) Look for the subtle hints that are apparent - no money on a date that he asked you on...

Cheers!
Sarah

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 10:31am

Too funny... imagine what the warning music would sound like. LOL! Thanks for the laugh Sarah!


I completely agree with your list.

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 6:35pm

"I completely agree with your list. Gut feelings about a guy are usually right (except the one where you're telling yourself, "he could be the one!". Ha ha"

This is very funny chanadevorah. I would have to agree that in most cases just when you think a man is "the one" then he almost always proves you wrong lol. But then again, it's usually our irrational la la land side that tells us this before we really get to know a person for who he is.

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Registered: 11-04-2006
Thu, 01-25-2007 - 9:55am

Here are a few more nuggets....hehehehehe

Well... yes I am 49..and never been married - but I have had lots of LTR's...hmmmmsounds like a serial monogamist that can't commit

Well - I lived with my parents until last year - and I spend every Saturday night with them!

Ohhhh...you don't mind if my EX joins us at dinner....

And the BEST - having your date - tell you at length how his EX did 'X Y and Z' and then they look right at you - looking for you to invalidate that action...!!!

EEEESH....I think we should have a clearing house of OLD losers perhaps - or a WEB site that we can create telling each other that GUY #1 is on 14 OLD sites and is a serial dater just looking for sex...

Cheers
Sarah