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| Wed, 03-16-2005 - 7:59am |
okay, here's what happened last night...I chose a place near me for coffee and agreed to met at 6:30. I got there alittle early and he was already there waiting. We ordered coffee and a sandwich, he got out his wallet and I said "you're not going to let me pay, are you!?" He said "no, not this time". We sat and talked and talked and talked until almost 9. We have alot in common. We didn't really talk about ex's, believe it or not. He's really into geneology and that fascinates me. He had great stories of past relatives. Not too much 'therapytalk' this time! We finished up and walked out and he asked if I was on any instant messager systems and we exchanged screennames and he said we'll have to do this again but sooner next time (it had been 2 weeks since we last went out). Again, no hug or kiss, which is fine. I got home and sent him a nice 'thank you' email. I really enjoyed the evening but, like everyone says, I'm being cautiously psyched!!

Hi Donna,
Good for you!!!!--you went, had fun, came home. Think NO further! Go on about your life, day by day, and if he wants/needs to figure in, he can and will. Maybe find some others to date too. This does not look, so far, like a great basket for your 'eggs', but it could go there, and You might as well enjoy that trip--so date many til One of them wants you to narrow the field, and You want the same!
I have found it is best to let them find You--wherever you may be! That way, your investment, emotionally, is minimal, and the outcome is the best..for YOU.
Best o luck and 4-1-1 often!
Truly,
Cupcake