Already clingy?

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Registered: 11-20-2003
Already clingy?
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Sat, 10-29-2005 - 6:40pm

So I have this guy write me online awhile back. I decided he wasn't for me at that particular time. Decided today to chat with him today for the first time and added him to my yahoo. I'm offline when he recieves it and instantly starts im'ing me...r u there? ding, ding. When I finally get on, I see he's done this ALL DAY (its mid afternoon). I chat with him. He wants a date, but he's not home. He's 30 minutes farther out. Noticed several warning signs during chat...mentions sex (it'd been 3 years for him???like I care..), claims he is retired and has plenty of money to live on but shares a house with his brother and his wife? (says he is building a house), and just generally a little too pushy towards the date. This is our first chat. I made excuses to get offline and postpone the "so called date" that he wanted TONIGHT. But his pushy forwardness has put me off. Am I wrong here?

Jeanie C.

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Registered: 01-09-2004
Sat, 10-29-2005 - 7:36pm
I agree with you. He would turn me off too. You don't even know him yet. Too much info and too pushy. He comes off sounding needy. If you talk again, see how he is. If he's still so pushy, I don't know if I'd continue bothering with him.
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Registered: 10-08-2005
Sat, 10-29-2005 - 9:10pm
Nope, it would make me too uncomfortable...I would move on.