alright need help writing opening msg

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Registered: 05-30-2006
alright need help writing opening msg
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Sun, 07-09-2006 - 1:19am
OKay I got my pics up on match.com my profile revised, (don't worry its nothing like my myspace profile), did some searching, found a girl I liked, seen that she has viewed my profile too.... now I have to think of something to say in a message! should I do the "wink" thing first... that seems really cheesy lol I think id rather just write a message.... I've been putting it off for a few days and I know i shouldnt wait any longer... soooo any ideas on what to say/not say in a first message?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2006
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 8:32pm
Just wanted to mention the possibility that she may not be a paying member and *can't* reply. I'm not sure how match works but on some sites if you're not a paying member, you can't even read the messages, or you can read them but not reply. Don't assume the worst and give it some time.
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 11:30pm
Match does work like that. If you're not a member, you can't even see who's emailed you.







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