Am I asking too much?

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Am I asking too much?
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Sun, 12-11-2005 - 11:01am
Are my expectations crazy to want a man to not mention other women or sex in our first convo? Am I expecting too much?

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Registered: 11-05-2003
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 11:04am
Nope, you're not asking too much. The guys sounds like a player, or hung up on another woman. NEXT!
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 5:35pm

Not only does everyone have baggage but everyone likes to talk about their baggage.

I say get over it.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 5:40pm
Confused by your post... get over what exactly? The fact that he brought up sex in the first convo? Or the fact that he's going after other women?

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 6:21pm

Yeah, I think it's pretty disrespectful for a guy to bring that stuff up in the first few conversations. Sure, everyone has baggage, but I prefer not to know the gory details right up front and to talk about sex with a total stranger is just weird.

But I have to admit, you gave me a good giggle when I read your OP. hee hee.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 6:44pm
It gave me a giggle too when I stepped back from it... I was like wth? LOL *shakes her head* hehe

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Registered: 03-03-2004
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 8:28pm
I was talking to a guy on the phone who said he'd been reading about women. He lead the conversation around to asking what I liked in bed. What?! I changed the subject. He was supposed to call me and we were supposed to meet this week-end, but I haven't heard from him. Now I'm wondering if he's a player, like has been suggested about men who bring-up sex right away. He was smooth about it, I'll give him that. LOL
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 8:43am

I meant the men should get over it.

Sorry, typing faster than my brain was thinking.

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 9:31am
Ugh.

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Registered: 10-11-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 10:30am
Hi,
I guess it might depend on 'how' these topics are mentioned. I quite often find myself in a brief conversation about OLD experiences. I will be interested in reading responses from others.
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 11:12am
I'm glad you cleared that up chamey... I sat back and read your response and was thinking... gee, did I say something off here? LOL. Thanks! :o)

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