Am I being a bit$$?

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Registered: 07-31-2004
Am I being a bit$$?
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Tue, 02-15-2005 - 5:38pm

Remember that guy I really thought I'd like to meet that I actually paid to respond to? Then he blew me off for what three weeks, then wrote to me, I wrote back saying I wasn't all that excited to meet him anymore but good luck. So he waited another couple weeks or so and then wrote me again yesterday, asking why I took my pictures down. I wrote back telling him I was going to be completely honest - that the only reason I paid was to talk to him and that him disappearing for longer than I thought was cool was a real disappointment because it's very hard for me to find a guy who is taller than me, has a profile I think would match mine, parties like I do and rides. So I took my profile down (I thought but apparently I need to do better clean up). He wrote back today saying he's sorry, he was out of town for a couple weeks, and work was EXTREMELY busy. Yeah right! He was active on both American Singles and Match that whole time! I know because I couldn't wait for him to write back. Lyin' sack of you know what.

Would you write back or would you just block him?

Lisa

(I'll tell ya what I did later but you can probably guess.....lol)

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Registered: 05-31-2003
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 5:52pm

Lisa,

He's not worth your time. Plus, you could write until you were blue in the face, but guys like that just don't GET it and never will. I hope you blocked him, but I going with my gut and I'll say that you wrote him back and beat the snot out of him.

ABM

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:01pm
I'd be tempted to write back - but I would just ignore him. My guess though is that you wrote back. Am I right?

 

 

 

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:31pm
You're not being a bit$$ but at this point I would have just blown him off and blocked him. But just like the others, I'm guessing this is not what you did right? :-)

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Registered: 05-16-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:58pm
You wrote him back and gave him a piece of your mind.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:59pm
since I'm such a sucker, I probably would give him a second chance. Since you did especially pay to meet him I would have emailed him back. I'm a sap. So what did you do? Is he cute!?
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 7:02pm

>>So what did you do? Is he cute!?

I love the female mind...

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Registered: 07-31-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:02pm

(This reply is to all only I think I have to pay to do that and you know how I love doing that...lol)

DING DING DING

LG wins! And whoever else guessed that I wrote him back and gave him a piece of my mind. Then I blocked him. (Sometimes I think it's chickensh&& to block 'em after you tell them what you think.) I said:

"Well it showed you active on here except for weekends
that whole time so not buying that excuse. Couldn't
understand why you weren't writing me back. Now you've
proved yourself to be a liar too - you've done me a
favor. I swear - there are no good guys left.

Another waste of $25."

I'm bitter, I know. But I'm tired of guys thinking I'm stupid.

Lisa

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:02pm
I haven't read any further yet...but I'll take odds that you sent a nastygrahm. LOL


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Registered: 07-31-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:05pm

I wasn't very nice and I don't care. Isn't that sad?

Now I really can't wait for your birthday!

Lisa

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:10pm

Not sad at all...it's just RIGHT to call somebody on it when they are out of line like that.

I'm countin down the days too...

Now I'm signing off to go watch Project Runway, my latest addiction.

I'll talk to you tomorrow if I still have that problem we talked about today. (How rude is it to talk in code on a public board? LOL)


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