am i rushing or is he fishy??
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| Thu, 03-03-2005 - 3:57pm |
hi. i met this guy online about 2 weeks ago and we hit it off. we found so many similarities within us and we had amazing conversation for 4 hours that night. we discussed what our online dating etiquette is regarding timelines for talking on the phone, seeing each other etc and we agreed to be friends 1st. well, it's a bit hard being frinds when your interested in the person so soon. over the week, we talked a bit more and it was nice. sometimes i wasn't online and he would text my cell asking where i was and how he kinda missed me. we would call each other sweety, hun, babe, cutie, sexy etc.. when we spoke online. i feel like i've been talking to him for about 2 months even though it's been 2 weeks. the week later, we were both busy with school but we didn't speak to each other for about 2 days and i got worried. he feels that we shouldn't call each other yet even though we have each other's phone numbers. he feels we need to take things slow and i agree but sometimes i feel that he may not be interested anymore especially when he's not online to talk or that he may be dragging me along for some crazy ride. when i'm not online, he msgs me and tells me he was online but didn't see me and wanted to talk to me so then i go online all day the next day and he's never around. i go to school mon-thurs full time and he's only there tues and thurs so when i go online tues or thurs night, he's never on. when i go on mon, wed or fri, he's never on. i can't seem to find him. school is busy about now because exams are coming up but i don't know how busy it could be
i just wanted to know if i'm rushing things or becoming paranoid and i need to relax or if something odd is up with him and this situation. we both think we have what each other is looking for in a relationship and we like each other pics. we know that all will tell when we go on our 1st official date but until then, we feel that if we take it slow, we shouldn't be disappointed on the date or after and things could only get better. at this rate though, i won't see him until sept and won't talk to him on the phone until may
what should i do?

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Turns out...his profile was fake..the pict was NOT him. He finally came clean with me and said that he thought that if I got to know him first it wouldnt' matter what he looked like! Yea....whatever. We only talked on the phone twice and he kept putting off meeting. This is NOT a good sign with what this guy has done to you.
Please, do yourself a big favor sweetie and move on the the next REAL guy!
Kelly
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