Am I suppose to ask?

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Registered: 04-15-2010
Am I suppose to ask?
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 12:57am

So I have a few prospects on Match. None of them have asked for a phone number or said anything about meeting. One guy apparently ended up ghosting, since I have not heard from him in a couple of weeks.

I have one guy who has sent 8 emails and I have sent 8 replies.... In a way I am slightly content, I don't have to get out of my comfort zone obviously. However, am I supposed to just wait until one of them says "Let's meet" or "What's your number?". If I go by "He's Just Not That Into You", then I should just wait.... right?

Seems like the last time I was on it was easier to just get their myspace info.... one guy actually became a great friend :)

I am thinking I should just hint Facebook.... However that may be a bad idea too, oh dear, can someone just set me up? :)

So advice would be great, and could someone look at my profile and let me know how it appears?

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 1:57pm

The goal of OLD is to actually date and for me that means to meet ASAP rather than spend time being a pen pal via email.

After 3 or so emails, I would say, I would like to talk with you to see for it is easier for me do that that rather than email.