Am I wasting my time...

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Am I wasting my time...
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 10:46am

I first talked to this guy on LL at the end of April very early May. Seemed pretty nice... but then i was going out of town for 5 days. He said send me pictures of your holiday and get in touch when you get back. I sent the pics... no reply. Got home let him know i was back. Nothing. I was pretty disapointed. But let it go... he's hardy the the first one i've had disapear.

Then a few days ago he reapears on LL. So I figure "what the heck." And sent him a "how have you been?" e-mail. He wrote back... said he had been dating someone... but it'd gone bad... and he wished he'd waited and met me first... and would i still consider meeting him.

Now i really don't feel i can hold dating someone against him... that's why we're all on these sites. So I said so. We've been talking on the phone every evening. Trying to work something out for a meeting.

Here's the thing... I'm going on holidays again in like a week and half... for three weeks this time... should i even be putting effort in to this guy given the fact he couldn't wait 5 days to meet me last time. In three weeks who knows what will happen.

k