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Another idiot!!!!
| Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:13am |
So I am supposed to have a date with the good looking psychologist tonight at 5:30.
| Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:13am |
So I am supposed to have a date with the good looking psychologist tonight at 5:30.
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Here are my two cents....since it is a general discussion here....I am an on the fencer in general because I am a Libra and tend to see both sides. I see that Sparkle may have just been venting and "just talking"...on the other hand, I do agree that, in the real world, trying to do something personal, work-related to the guy would be overboard, especially for a lame excuse. It would be a *little* different if he did something more personal to her first, etc. Then I could understand the feelings more so.
Sara
No one is saying that you cannot disagree... I think as Jodie said, this is just a situation where we're going to have to agree to disagree otherwise we could all write a few 100 posts as to why our opinions are correct, you know what I mean? :)
And I think this post is so crucial for people to see where you are coming from, instead them of getting all defensive because you dared to question the statement.
It was either a carelessly made statement about a topic that is very serious, but people don't think about it unless it's impacting them, OR it was a disturbing thought process.
Because of what you are going through, I understand why you felt it was so disturbing. It's NOT something to joke about, as anyone who's been terrorized would understand.
OMG!!! I cannot believe the things that are being written here. She never SAID she was going to stalk anyone!
This is just ridiculous.
Sheri
While I symphathize with what you may be going through, sparklepuss's comment was not made of malice. But rather frustration.
I'm willing to bet 99% of us have googled our dates or potential dates. It's very common in this day and age. I happen to consider it one of the "pluses" of internet dating. I've done it before. My BF told me he googled me when we first started dating.
I recognize this is a sensitive and scary issue for you and if the OP was actually making this guy's life miserable, your comments would be valid. But the OP is not a malicious person and I believe only made the comment out of frustration. All she did was look up a website where he TOLD her he worked. Aside from making a comment (which may or may not have been inappropriate), she has commenced no other action.
Thank you for reminding us that cyber-stalking is a serious issue. Fortunately, that is not the case here.
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