Another loser
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| Sat, 08-26-2006 - 4:12pm |
this is the guy who lied about his height and is 5'' shorter than he pretends.
I met him on Tue spent 1 1/2 together and he insisted on walking me home since we met in the parc near my place!
He seemed ok although I was not attracted whatsoever.
Wed he sends me a thank you email to which I did not reply.
Then he saw me twice on pentyofFish where we met and started a chat so I excused myself and left. and once I rejected his chat invite bluntely.
So again he emails to ask if we could doing something Thu I replied at midnight saying sorry too busy. Then he emails what about the weekend?
I did not reply.
Today he called me from a private number so I did not answer and he did not leave message (but I had a feeling it was him) few hours later he rings again from a private number and I dont answer so he leaves a voicemail with a blaming tone asking to call him whenever and left his number!
This is starting to look like a stalker now. I m waiting for a time when he is not on POF site to send him thank you we are not a match! I m just concerned that he knows my name and where I live and might be troublesome!
Why doesnt he get it? do I have to spell it out for him!!

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I already admitted contacting him again was a mistake.
"...contact from us crazy, confusing, horrible women can confuse them."
Taking this a little too far, aren't we? I'm done. Good luck to both of you.
if you send 5 emails without getting any response, call twice and no call back, send 3 chatting invites on 3 occasions that never get accepted... if this does not get to your brain that the woman is not interested then MAN you have issues. And certainly a stalker qualities and anxiety.
The reason I did not tell him outright that I m not interested is that I did it with few guys before and they kept asking "why? I think you made a mistake and should give us another chance..." or "It did not seem to me that you were not attracted!"
so I said I met someone else (which is true I m seeing this Tom Cruise lookalike :)
It just makes me avoid a lengthy explanation as to why I think we dont get along...
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