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another mess....
| Tue, 06-14-2005 - 10:13am |
what have I gotten myself into now....another guy I met on Craigslist wants to meet this Saturday (we've been emailing for about 3 weeks, he lives 2 hrs away). But the conversations have really turned 'sexual' and I'm not comfortable, so I politely sent him an email saying that Saturday is not going to work, that I would like to meet someone closer to where I live and that I'm not looking for a long distance relationship. He emailed back saying that if we 'clicked' he'd move closer to me, that he wants a relationship, that he'd drive to my town on Saturday if that was the problem...way too over eager!!!!
Alittle scary..
so should I just let it go and block him ??
Alittle scary..
so should I just let it go and block him ??

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Hello Donna-
His only interest in getting together with you is to have sex.
CL-Truewild1969
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You've got some HUGE red flags and you are not feeling comfortable. Just tell him that you are not a match, block and move on. You'll have to be more direct and clear than "Saturday is not going to work." That makes it sound like you still want to meet him even with the not wanting a LDR comment. When you give excuses like that, they will always try to talk you out of it. Be more blunt and just say that you do not think it will work between you and maybe even throw in amjay's comment of "and please see this as final" and then block. I hope he doesn't have your # or know where you live!
Gotta be careful with those Craigslist guys! CGUN got lucky and found a normal one actually looking for a relationship but that is definitely NOT the norm.
hint..that's because I don't want to talk to you!
CL-Truewild1969
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You are one straight shooting person.
I swear if she has this meeting she will let this guy lay her.
I can see the zombie syndrome already.
then she will agonise about the disaster.
I'm not going to meet him!
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