Another ONLINE Jerk off

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2005
Another ONLINE Jerk off
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Tue, 10-04-2005 - 11:24pm

Check out this Dear John letter I received after falling for some idiot. I found out he's married, STILL, and to top it all off...he's BACK on Match.com. Beware of this twit. Supperclubman on match.com in tennessee area. What a TOTAL JACKASS.

Dear (my name inserted here):

I have been up all night, thinking of you....of us....of our day....of what transpired between us yesterday. I am not fit to love you or be loved by you. Being with you made me realize that I don't belong here, and I never will. Not because of societal differences, or because of the "bubba factor" , or because of anything but the fact that I need to be where my children are.

I should be in Indiana, close to them. Where I'm truly needed. Not here, trying to do something where they are not. I don't have long for that, and I need to get there and take care of them. You see, I've been sick for awhile, and I have been getting worse. Don't worry, not with anything you could catch from me. I have emphysema, and it's getting progressively worse.

I have love to give, and want to be loved. But I feel constant guilt over abandoning my kids. Every time I talk to Emily, I can hear it in her voice....real or imagined. I should be there. So, today, I must talk to my brother and tell him that I need to go back there.

Don't come see me, or call me.....try not to hate me. You're such a wonderful girl. Beautiful and sweet and warm and intelligent. So out of my league. So.....everything. You are really coming together as a person, and I'm so far behind that. Thank you for yesterday....for all that it was, it will forever be in my memory as one of the best days of my life.

He SOUNDS SINCERE DOESNT HE? HE's BACK ONLINE ON MATCH TROLLING for women. NICE.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 12:58am

Wow - sorry this happened. How did you find out he's really married? I don't think they allow you to post peoples handles on this site w/out their permission, you might want to remove that ok? I know you're mad - what a horrible thing to go thru. The scary part is he seems normal, doesn't fit the PLAYER profile, but apparently he got game!

Onward, rise above this - hugs!

Ms. Peanut

 
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2004
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 2:42pm

UGH! I just looked him up on Match. His profile definitely says he's divorced!

You can always post him on: http://dontdatehimgirl.com/home/

hello
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 2:55pm

You really need to remove any of his personal info/screen name from your post.

Beyond that - sorry you had to go through that. A lot of us here have been burned by married liars.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2005
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 4:04pm
You can also put him on this website: http://www.truedater.com/
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
Wed, 10-05-2005 - 5:03pm
You’re all so funny “Burn him at the stake”, he, he.
 
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 10-06-2005 - 10:46am
His wife found an email and he explained it away but has to get rid of you because it's too close right now.