"are you sensual?"

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Registered: 08-12-2006
"are you sensual?"
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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 1:51pm

Just wanted to give you all a little update about "pretty boy". Well, it's been a day and a half that he hasn't contacted me ever since our "sticky situation" about his glam shot. I still haven't given him my pic. I'm trying to see if I can take some more doofy shots of myself and see which ones look best for me to send to him.

I don't know if he's vaporizing on me. I'm just gonna play it that it's New Year's Eve and he's probably partying his heart out...well, if he is, isn't that a red flag right there?

Anyhow, I wanted to bring up to you all a snippet of our quick chat the other day and ask if this would be a red flag with you.

He had at one point asked me if I was "sensual". I asked him back why did he ask me that. And he replied something like he bases a woman by her sensuality and intelligence. I didn't say anything more. And it was a good thing too because he had to go by then.

Thing is, is he setting up a foundation for either cyber sex or phone sex (if we ever get to that stage)? I don't want another "cyber sex dude" like last time. Would you believe that "cyber sex dude" still lives in my mind even after like 2 months later?

In any case, how do I handle this? I wouldn't mind *flirting* with him, but am scared it will get out of control, you know? I also do not want to be a prude.

What to do, what to do?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 12-31-2006 - 4:59pm

Translation: are you willing to have sex with me right away?

I'd next this guy.

Sheri

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Registered: 08-12-2006
Sun, 12-31-2006 - 9:32pm

I was rereading this post and I think I may have embarrassed myself!

I meant to say if we ever get up to the exchanging phone numbers stage, not phone sex stage!

NWW might be right though that I should probably kick this one to the curb.

Will keep you posted!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 12-31-2006 - 11:21pm
Yeah - sounds like he is a bit creepy or something ... "are you sensual" ... Puuulllleeeezzzz!
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